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GenSilent: Addressing the Needs of the Aging Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) Population

Posted by: Jerold E. Rothkoff Posted Date: Saturday, February 4, 2012 11:07

 

Many LGBT seniors find it difficult to survive in today’s health care system. GenSilent interviewed LGBT seniors and others for insights into this growing problem. In a recent publication from the Institute for Multigenerational Health, The Aging and Health Report: Disparities and Resilience among LGBT Older Adults states, “The five services and programs identified by participants as being most needed for LGBT older adults are senior housing (66 percent), transportation (62 percent), social events (62 percent), support groups (55 percent), and legal services (53 percent).

 

Our office is sponsoring a continuing education seminar for social workers and case managers on LGBT issues during our March professional seminars.  Please refer to our firm website for dates and times. 

Learn more about GenSilent's documentary on LGBT seniors.

Death of Joe Paterno

Posted by: Jerold E. Rothkoff Posted Date: Sunday, January 22, 2012 16:27

I am not surprised that Joe Paterno died at the age of 85 after undergoing treatment for lung cancer.  My guess is that the lung cancer, although it would have eventually taken his life, was not the immediate cause of his death.  I  believe that Joe Paterno died of a broken heart after being fired as the head coach of Penn State football. Bear Bryant, the legendary Hall of Fame coach of Alabama football, although not fired, similarly died soon after leaving the head coach position. 

 

Likewise, it is not uncommon for a surviving spouse to pass away soon after the death of a spouse.  I wrote about the loss of a spouse in my winter 2010 newsletter which I am posting below.

 

 

Up Up & Away!

By Jerold E. Rothkoff

In my ten years in writing and publishing this Newsletter, I have yet to write a movie review –– until now.
If you have not already done so, do not walk, kindly run to see the movie, Up. The title is deceptively
simple, which is fitting, because the movie from Pixar Animation is deeper and more complex on every level
than it would initially appear.

It is a mismatched buddy comedy, the buddies being a curmudgeonly 78- year-old man and an 8- year-old boy,
who wind up together in a flying house, traveling to South America. Between the richness of the characters
and their interactions, it will not take you long to forget that Up is a cartoon and become immersed.

A life-altering meeting

We begin some 70 years before, when Carl Fredricksen was just a boy, worshipping the glamorous explorer
Charles F. Muntz. Even then, Carl moved with the quiet cautiousness of an old man –– that is, until he meets
the energetic tomboy Ellie, who brings out the fun he never knew he had inside him. Up shares their decades-
long romance in a lovely, poignant montage. It lasts just a few minutes without a single word spoken, but it
tells a full and satisfying story. Do not even bother holding back the tears: They will come, and deservedly
so.

From there, though, there is nowhere to go but up, literally. Now a crusty widower facing eviction and an
antiseptic life in a retirement community, the former balloon salesman ties thousands of helium balloons to
his house and soars into the clouds. His eventual destination: Paradise Falls in Venezuela, where he and
Ellie always promised each other they would go. Carl has an unexpected passenger on his voyage: Russell, an
overeager Junior Wilderness Explorer who had knocked on Carl’s door hoping to earn the final badge he needs
to become a senior scout: assisting the elderly. They make an unlikely but lovable pair: the rigid Carl and
the cheerful Russell. Their bond is sweet, their journey joyous.

The beauty of Up is its message about the perils and promises of aging, and its ability to strike an
emotional chord that floats across any demographic divide. Kids will like it; but it will deeply touch
adults.

So many people find themselves grasping tightly to the past, holding onto things as if they were holding onto
life. But things are not life. Remembering the past is good – it reminds us of how we came to be who we are.
But clinging to the past is death, even if you are still alive.

In Up, what turns Carl around is the sense that he still has something to do. He was going nowhere, but when
circumstances intervened, he found that he was going somewhere. Carl thinks that the answer to his life’s
malaise is a trip to Paradise Falls to keep his final promise to his wife. But what he discovers is that his
life’s value is not merely in what has gone before, but what is still to come. In this case, Carl is
rejuvenated when he fights a new battle, sets off on a new adventure.

As people get older, they see less and less of life before them, so they are tempted to retire from active
pursuits and, instead, chase and hold fast to what has passed. We yearn for our glory days, replaying our
golden moments while present opportunities slip by.

We strive in our office, through our holistic Elder Law practice, to allow our clients, whenever possible, to
continue to live in the present. We love to hear our client's stories of how husband and wife met or raising
their children. However, we attempt not to allow our clients to cling to the past. Our goal is to bring out
the “Up” in each and every client. 



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Welcome Our New Health Insurance Specialist, David Goldwasser

Posted by: Jerold E. Rothkoff Posted Date: Saturday, January 14, 2012 15:47

 

We are very pleased to welcome to our office David Goldwasser as our Health Insurance Specialist.  David brings over ten years of experience in health insurance advocacy and coordination.  David previous served as the State Health Insurance Assistance Program (SHIP) Director for Camden County. 

 

David’s responsibilities include providing health insurance client advocacy and assisting clients in coordinating Medicare and other health insurance benefits for maximum coverage.  With the changes already in place as well as the future changes to our health care delivery system, David’s expertise is a welcome addition to the elder and disability services we offer.  David can be contacted at David@rothkofflaw.com.

For terminally ill, new NJ law gives final say on medical care

Posted by: Jerold E. Rothkoff Posted Date: Saturday, January 7, 2012 14:09

On December 21, 2011, Governor Christie signed into law "Physician Orders for Life Sustaining Treatment" or POLST.  The law moved NJ in line with more than 30 other states.

 

POLST allows individuals to remain in control when facing a life-limiting or teminal illness.  With POLST, an individual can choose whether or not to be resusitated, and can authorize a healthcare proxy to make decisions on their behalf if they become incapacitated.

 

POLST has to be signed by a physician or nurse practitioner, and unlike a living will, it has authority of a physician order and becomes part of their medical records, following the patient from one healthcare setiing to another, including home, hospital, nursing home, or hospice.    

 

A POLST form would only be valid if signed by the patient, or the patient's legal representative, as well as the attending physician or nurse practitioner, along with the date of signature.  A patient can amend or revoke a POLST form, or request treatment other than what was ordered on the form.  The patient can also spell out whether their healthcare representative or proxy has the authority to revoke or modify the POLST in the event the patient loses decision making capacity. 

 

The new law provides for a central database where health care providers can be notified of a patient's preference for care.

Study Shows That Many Surgeons Don’t Discuss End-of-Life Wishes with Patients Before Risky Procedures

Posted by: Jerold E. Rothkoff Posted Date: Sunday, December 25, 2011 09:13

 

Many U.S. surgeons fail to discuss their patients' wishes in case a risky operation goes awry, and even more would not operate if patients limited what could be done to keep them alive, a survey found. Such medical wishes and plans for end-of-life care, called "advance directives," outline what can and cannot be done if patients are unable to decide for themselves. The most famous examples are so-called living wills. But the restrictions are debated among doctors, said the survey, published in the Annals of Surgery.

"(Surgeons) feel the advance directive basically ties their hands behind their back, and they're not given the tools to get them through the surgery," said Margaret Schwarze, an assistant professor at the University of Wisconsin School of Medicine and Public Health, who was one of the survey's authors. She and her colleagues asked 912 surgeons who regularly perform risky operations 14 questions on how they discuss a patient's advance directives and whether the directives influence their decision to operate. More than four out of every five surgeons discussed which forms of life support the patients would like to limit, but only about half asked specifically about the patient's advance directive, which can include restricting the use of feeding tubes and ventilators to keep a person alive. "I think some surgeons just don't discuss advance directives because they think it's so irrelevant," Schwarze added.

 

Source/more: Reuters Health


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